The Power of Love

February is the month of love, and I’m lucky I was able to spend Valentine’s Day in Utah with my husband and son. It’s been snowing a lot in Salt Lake City, a layer of fine white powder blanketing the streets with beauty and wonder. I took a photo of this tree imagining it’s a mulberry tree in snow, a “white mulberry” of sorts. White Mulberry happens to be the title of my novel-in-progress, only it refers to a white mulberry tree in 1928 Japan-occupied Korea. I love that this species of tree offers so much but demands so little in return, like my protagonist who had to survive in lean times.

As I think about love and writing this month, I realize how much my book is about the human need for love. The main character Miyoung, based on my grandmother, was able to find strength in love from her mother, sister, husband and son. She learned to love others too, even though she feared it might lead to heartache. When I look at what my grandmother’s story represents, a big part is the idea that love makes us stronger. And during these unprecedented times, love can make a difference in helping us persevere.

In White Mulberry, a spirited girl named Miyoung believes that love doesn’t exist and that arranged marriages are bad. Born to a poor, broken family in Korea during the Japanese Occupation, she faces the prospect of an unwanted arranged marriage and a dead-end future. From the branches of her favorite white mulberry tree where she is free to be herself, she dreams of a different future. When she receives an opportunity to study in Japan, she defies her station in life and earns her way there with the help of a kind, Christian teacher.

Moving to Kyoto and living with her older sister is not the brighter future she imagined, and she begins to shun relationships. In a country hostile to Koreans, she changes her name to Miyoko and hides her identity to fit in, causing loneliness and shame. Being separated from her childhood home hardens her, until she meets Hyukman—an idealistic, lawyer-to-be, who opens her eyes to the possibility of romantic love and ignites a passion for justice, changing the course of her life.

Without giving away too much of the story, I will say that tragedy strikes Miyoung’s life, and she is left as a single mother who must raise her son alone. Faced with being drafted by the Japanese army as a nurse in WWII and the possibility that she might lose her son too, Miyoung must decide her and her son’s fate.

My draft manuscript is in the hands of a few trusted beta-readers now, and I hope they will see Miyoung as the amazing woman I do:  caught in the arc of history fighting for love, searching to belong, and challenging societal norms and government authority. Its message that we need love is timely, universal and remarkable—even more so because it’s based on a true story.

If my grandmother survived because of love, we can too. Through stories like hers, I learned that I can persevere with the love of family, friends and a spiritual power. Through love, I too can grow hardy and resilient, like a mulberry tree.

How has love helped you during these uncertain times?

Leave a comment on below and let me know.

Pictures that Inspire

Gary the cat

My son’s cat Gary

What I’m reading…

A Tree Grows in Brooklyn – By Betty Smith

My favorite classic book of all time is this timeless tale of an Irish-American girl coming of age in Brooklyn during the turn of the century. In many ways, this book is every girl’s story and was the inspiration for my novel, although I wasn’t aware of it at the time I started writing. They are both about a girl growing up in poverty and constrained by the options available to her but with an imagination that soared beyond her circumstances. This book was also originally a memoir but was turned into fiction, like mine. The parallels are uncanny, including the title. I am honored to be writing a book that carries forth the message that we all need love, even if it can be heartbreaking at times. There are other books I enjoyed with strong female heroines, like Antonia of My Antonia and Jo of Little Women. But if you haven’t read about Francie in A Tree Grows in Brooklyn, or want to read it again, I highly recommend it!




  1. Deb February 20, 2021 at 9:26 am

    I canNOT wait to get my hands on your novel. It sounds like it is shaping up beautifully. Congratulations. I’m so glad you were able to spend some time with your son (and Gary the cat!) in Utah.

    • Rosa February 22, 2021 at 5:13 pm

      Thank you Deb! I hope to get it into the hands of readers like you soon :). I’ve been loving my time in beautiful Utah. Gary is the cutest, and I’m supposed to be allergic to cats!

  2. Holly Vanderdonck February 22, 2021 at 6:33 am

    I love your beautiful blog and the way that love helped your grandmother through difficult times. Our commitment to love can be seen so often these days in the selflessness of frontline workers and the kindness of neighbors helping neighbors. It is said that love cures all and it will definitely play its part in lessening fear, providing positivity, and bringing an end to this pandemic.

    • Rosa February 22, 2021 at 5:19 pm

      Your sentiment that love cures all is so true Holly! Thanks for reading this and for believing that love can help when we face difficult times like these. There’s hope!

  3. Jennifer Townsend February 22, 2021 at 8:30 am

    Thank you for this uplifting blog on the power of love. Love never fails. Your writing is relevant and inspiring and I can’t wait for White Muleberry to come out!

    • Rosa February 22, 2021 at 5:23 pm

      Your support of my writing is steadfast and nourishing. Love is powerful and something we all need. Thanks for being there!

  4. Mia Miyoung May 25, 2021 at 11:35 am

    Yes, to echo Holly’s sentiment, I agree Love does cure all and we can never underestimate the power of Love. My higher power tells me ” Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy nor boast and is not proud. Love does not dishonor others and it is not self seeking & it keeps no records of wrong. ” How beautiful is that??? Above all things, without Love, Life is futile.
    I look forward to reading White Mulberry because my parents also lived in Japan during the occupational period and being Korean American, i can definitely relate.

    • Rosa May 26, 2021 at 8:57 am

      Thank you so much Mia. Love and belonging are themes throughout White Mulberry because they are so universal and important. I hope you enjoy the book once it gets out into the world!

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